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Review: We Are Gathered Here Today by Bobby Finger




Blurb from Goodreads:
At 36, Finlay Hightower has attended countless incredible, cringe-worthy, and disastrous wedding celebrations with his best friends. Their secret to surviving wedding chaos? The Hour of Disrespect—a pact to reserve judgement to one hour after the couple’s Big Day, protecting the wedding glow and leaving only with the good memories.

But this next wedding will test their decade-old tradition in more ways than one. Now, one of their own is getting married—Fin’s beloved cousin, Elaine—at a Wild West-themed venue in the sweltering Texas summer heat that is as meticulously itineraried as it is kitchy. Reserving opinions won’t be easy, and on top of that Fin has a secret that threatens his officiant he’s just gotten engaged to the man of his dreams, and a sense of unease has him questioning if he believes in the institution of marriage at all.

As Fin joins the rambunctious and increasingly unhinged “queer table”, old friendships are tested and new relationships are formed. Will each guest hold back their particular views on love, commitment, and the wedding before Elaine can say “I do”? And if not, could those confessions ultimately give Fin the courage to uncover his truth?

Like any good wedding, We Are Gathered Here Today is funny, heartfelt, and full of surprises. Like any terrible wedding, it’s something you’ll never forget.
My Review:

 
I just did not enjoy this, at all.  I found the characters to be insufferable.  I found the situation to be untenable.  I found the writing to be a struggle as well as the plot....  Hope you have better luck!

We Are Gathered Here Today comes out next week on June 16, 2026, and you can purchase HERE.  
The frequency of receiving wedding invitations had slowed down just as everything else in Fin's life seemed to be speeding up. Algorithmically recommended content displayed on every app installed on his phone constantly reminded him that time moved faster as you got older, not that he needed a stranger's insistence for him to notice something so grimly, crushingly obvious. The planet was getting hotter more quickly.

The threat of fascism was rising. Even the lines around his eyes were deepening over time, a fairly recent change that made Fin realize his own vanity was dwindling quicker than he ever predicted it would. So much was happening all of the time, so little of it could be ignored, and the gravest irony was how quickly everyone-himself included-was able to forget. Minds could only hold so much information, Fin often thought, and at some point in the past ten years the human brain had reached its biological limit. 

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